The concept of Daddy Doms can be confusing. People hear the phrase and most think “pedophilia” or “pseudo-incest”, but the BDSM relationship that is often described as Daddy Dom/little girl (DD/lg) is neither. It’s not a man wanting to have sex with a child, or a girl wanting to have sex with her father. Rather, it’s a Dominant/submissive relationship in which the Daddy Dom … [Read more...]
The Couples Rut
Couples often have a hard time communicating about their sexual desires. Men aren't mind readers. Yep, turns out 99% of men have EPSN not ESP. And ladies, we have a bad habit of denial if we have a problem. I'm fine, everything is fine. So how do we go about saying we want something more without hurting our man's ego? And if you're a man how do you talk … [Read more...]
A Gift for Every Story – Movie Inspired Gift Ideas
With every holiday season comes the inevitable gift giving anxiety. You want to surprise but you don't want to stun (when you completely miss the mark). In one of my favorite movies (dare I say an all time classic) Say Anything, Lloyd Dobler gives Diane Court his undying love and devotion (I mean who doesn't want someone to serenade them with a ridiculously giant … [Read more...]
Boobs- We Love Them, Right?
I mean, who doesn't love boobs? Show me one person who does not at least appreciate boobs, I dare you. We were at a Burlesque Show this weekend, and really burlesque is basically a vaudeville act that worships the female form. I think it's fair to say that if you don't appreciate boobs then you are not going to a burlesque show. I went with my husband and a few friends. … [Read more...]
Was it Something I Said?
I think it's true when they say opposites attract. I know it's cliché to say, but I do feel like in a lot of ways my husband is truly my other half. I am very much a glass half full sort of person, optimistic, trying to see the good in every situation. He jumps to the worst conclusions and has a bit of a pessimistic outlook (he also argues that he is a realist not a pessimist, … [Read more...]
