It's been a weird year. It feels like it's been an unbelievably long year and in many ways I don't feel like the same person that started it out. A major change this year is that I finally upgraded to a smartphone. This sounds like a strange thing to single out in this year of emotions and events and lots of very not so good things. But I'm realizing more and more that it … [Read more...]
Fetishes, Fetishes Everywhere!
"That's not my kink." This is a joke between me and my husband. Because it does seem like just about everything can be someone's fetish or kink. I mean look at any online porn outlet (not that I ever do) and there are subcategories for just about everything. For instance, if we've just been to our favorite restaurant and I again have eaten so much I almost feel sick. He'll … [Read more...]
G Marks The Spot
Have you ever found your g-spot before? I mean reeeaaally found it? Like, it wasn't just an accident of enthusiasm. You could draw a road map and hand out GPS coordinates for the next pilgrimage. FOUND IT! Found it? I ask because not everyone knows their vagina. I was at a gyno appointment for my dislodged IUD. The physician's assistant a mousy little blond asked … [Read more...]
Sex Toy Fail: Sticky Spanks
I make it no secret that my husband and I like to try new, kinky things from time to time. I feel very lucky that he indulges my kinky side and buys us new things to try out. One of these items was the Black Rose Spank and Soothe Cream by Doc Johnson. My thinking is he saw the word 'spank' and thought, "Hey, my lady likes to be spanked." And then clickity clicked, added it … [Read more...]
Does Ageplay Squick You Out?
When I first heard about Ageplay, I didn't think I got it. And I had the same reaction as many of being a little skeeved out. I thought it was a healthy expression of pedophilia or incest-- so nothing wrong with it, but not my cup of tea. Except there was this specific moment when I realized I DID get it. Katherine Deane was writing an ageplay section in The Winter Storm … [Read more...]