A while ago I wrote a post, The Couples Rut, all about how to comfortably and openly discuss your sexual wants and desires with your partner in non-confrontational ways. That discussion can be difficult no matter what kind of relationship you are in. The last thing I suggested was watching different informative videos together to see what sticks. The video I used as an … [Read more...]
Has Kink Gone Mainstream?
This past week anytime I turned on the TV or clicked on to the internet, something happened. I got the feeling it was okay to be kinky. Well, really, I know it's okay to be kinky, but I had the feeling that the rest of the world was finally coming up to speed. I know it has been talked about to death, but Fifty Shades of Grey whether you loved it or hated it- it happened. … [Read more...]
Spirituality and the Sexual Kink
In the post-Fifty Shades of Grey era, the topic of “deviant sex” has come to the forefront of mainstream society's awareness. Considering it's rarely discussed without snickers or jokes, it seems to me that the time seems ripe for an expansion of consciousness around the topic. As far as I can tell, I was born with a sexual kink. I consider it an orientation vs. an … [Read more...]
Tying The Knot
Nothing makes me happier than when a sci-fi/fantacy/paranormal author gets fancy with genitalia. More specific, male genitalia. I mean the vagina is pretty perfect the way it is. You rarely see male masturbating products that do anything a regular vagina can't do. Yet there are hundreds of female masturbatory products that each are more creatively designed than … [Read more...]
Discovering New Territories
Like millions of individuals out there I buy all of my sex toys almost exclusively on the internet. It's nice to hide behind the anonymity, compare reviews, and also compare prices from the comfort of one's own home. Today I am specifically talking about butt plugs and finding the right one for you. You're shopping on the internet, so how do you know size, weight, and … [Read more...]
